Written by Rebecca is a thick bitch a curvy goddess. She became my assistant at the beginning of September.
I’ve wanted an adjustable dress form for years, but in the past, I didn’t have the space to keep one. This year, as my list of needs significantly shrank, I had the opportunity to choose more pretentious items, and that’s when my journey began.
With the limited knowledge I had at the time, I started searching for the perfect dress form to meet my needs. I’m all about aesthetics, in case you couldn’t tell, so I knew I wanted one to be on display without feeling repulsed by its appearance. Most dress forms came with a beige/cream cover that looked rather lifeless, and I was certain I didn’t want one like that.
I began researching the different types available and soon realized I didn’t need all that information. Here’s what I did:
- Identify your needs:
In my case, I wanted one that looked aesthetically pleasing and was adjustable to roughly match my size. I wasn’t looking for something to pin into or use for draping because I’m not that skilled. - Budget:
Surprisingly, not many people mention how expensive these items can be, so this is a crucial step to start with. - Check availability in your area:
In my case, my options were further limited. I had to order from another country (Germany) while living in Denmark, which added a whole new dimension to my adventure with my beloved Rebecca.
Storytime:
One day, I woke up and realized that I really needed a dress form for some of my dresses. I wanted the flexibility to adjust it to my sizes, or at least come close. My goal was to use it to visualize some of the garments I make and have them on display, making it easier to take pictures.
As I mentioned, I wanted it to be aesthetically pleasing because my sewing atelier is small, and I prefer to be surrounded by nice things, rather than a dress form that looks like a corpse.
I began my search, and my list quickly narrowed down to one item. I soon realized that dress forms aren’t very popular here in Denmark. My first stop was Amazon.de, which had become a routine for me. Sometimes, ordering from there can be more affordable, even if I have to pay for shipping. It’s no wonder the world is moving in this direction. Oh, and I didn’t want a secondhand item because buying secondhand here is a nightmare, but I won’t go into details right now.
I found a dress form from a brand called Adjustoform that ticked all my boxes. It was elegantly designed with wooden legs and had a black cover. The price fit my budget, even though I had to add a bit more to my initial investment. I was hoping it would be worth it.
I placed the order, but I started to second-guess my decision because I had acted impulsively, and it was the last one in stock.
A few days later, I received the package, and all my excitement vanished instantly. Although it was in perfect condition, the size was wrong.
I have the following measurements:
Bust: 98 cm
Waist: 80 cm
Hips: 108 cm
I ordered the dress form in size M, not S.
When I realized I had received the wrong size, I panicked and began to imagine a scenario where the seller had ill intentions, sending me a smaller size because they didn’t have the correct one in stock. I even considered that since I was from Denmark, I might not bother to send it back.
I reached out to the seller and expressed my concerns. In my mind, I was convinced of this unfavorable outcome. To my surprise, they responded the next day, apologizing for the mistake. They suggested I use the postal service to return the incorrect dress form and assured me they would refund the transportation cost. Once they received the return, they would send me the right size.
This situation started to stress me out, and it was taking a toll on my mental health. I reluctantly accepted that I might lose my money and followed the seller’s instructions. However, I couldn’t use the Amazon return label because I wasn’t in Germany, so I had to trust the seller to keep their promise.
Over the next few days, more messages were exchanged between me and the seller. They promptly refunded the transportation cost, and I had a decision to make. I chose to receive the correct size because I had already unboxed the first one, and I was impressed with its quality.
A week later, I received the dress form in the correct size. To my surprise, Petra, the seller, included a small apology gift in the package. That was the moment when I met Rebecca.
What lessons did Rebecca teach me?
- Don’t assume the worst in people.
I have this tendency because I grew up in a very toxic environment, and it became my coping mechanism. The seller turned out to be a lovely lady named Petra Gimbel from Germany, and her store is called Büsten4You. - Listen to my instincts.
The moment I placed the order, I had a bad feeling—I just knew it. - Believe in my decisions because they are the best.
I had been searching for this product for a while, and I chose that seller based on a multitude of factors. I should not have doubted myself in that way.
The product
The product arrived well-packaged and in impeccable condition.
The unboxing was a delightful experience, thanks to the small gift and the discovery of all the components. With the first bust, I didn’t delve too deeply into it, as I didn’t want to damage the order. Instead, I focused on assessing the quality of the wood and the feel of the fabric.
The assembly process was straightforward, and the final product is amazing. I assembled it in less than 10 minutes, adjusted it to my size, and once it was upright, it proved to be very sturdy.
Overall, I am incredibly pleased with the quality. I believe it complements my sewing atelier very well, and I will put it to good use.
Now, regarding the seller: the lady was incredible. I deeply regret having doubted her and thought the worst of her. I’ve learned my lesson, and I’m grateful that this situation unfolded as it did.
The name ‘Rebecca’ holds significant meaning for me, something known only to me. She will be my trusted assistant for years to come, and her significance to me runs deep.
Anca GV 